by Phillip Day
Tell someone you know ‘Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you.' - Jim Rohn
Information is a slippery commodity. Most reading this know just how hard it is to tell even someone who loves them information that could literally save their lives. Strangers seem much more amenable. They've never had to wash your dirty laundry. Thankfully, the health problems most suffer on a daily basis are not life-threatening, so most try and live with them the best they can, not even aware of the simple changes to diet and lifestyle that can have the most astounding outcome on their situation.
Information overload and apathy In the age of the (supposedly) high-speed Internet and mass-communications media, the job of trying to help others has become both easier and more frustrating. Today you can hit a button and send a bulletin to millions. But so can others.
The problem is, the sheer amount of new data now available induces a blindness or selectivity to the citizen, causing apathy to set in. I won't get into how the powers that be actually use this to their advantage. Suffice to say that for a person to raise an indolent finger to consider anything that might help them, they have to have a strong motivation to do it.
A personal connection A cancer patient writes to me and tells me they have cancer. They are frightened and want to live, so they have a strong motivation. I never lose sight of how hard it can be sometimes for someone to phone a complete stranger or send an email into the ether, knowing that the default setting of the world is indifference.
That is why I always answer emails that end up in my in-tray, and when my phone rings, I pick it up and talk to whoever's on the other end, unless it's a call-centre in Bangladesh.
Sadly (or thankfully, depending on your viewpoint), I am only one person, so the task has been to figure out exponential ways to help those who either won't or can't help themselves (the fact that you're reading this means that you know how to help yourself!).
Tools to help you To this end,
Credence and the
Campaign for Truth in Medicine have produced or promoted the use of simple tools like
books,
CDs, DVDs, online films and
weekly health tips like this one to get the message out. We have discovered, however, that great though these aids might be,
the personal involvement of the troops on the ground in recommending them is the deciding factor. I wish I could have a $ for everytime someone wrote or called saying, "A friend suggested I should read this book/come to a meeting/listen to that CD/watch an online film..." and got them active.
If there is a single-line equation or push-button solution to any of the world's ills, it's that changing a bad situation into a good one is an act of volition -
you have to want to do it, and so do those around you.
It starts with a choice, usually born out of a contempt/disgust/rejection of your current plight. It's often accomplished by someone giving you a gentle, or sometimes not so gentle prod too in the right direction.
Be aware of those around you This week's health tip, therefore, is to encourage each of you to become aware and sensitive to the problems of those closest to you, and to see if there are simple things you can help them do to help themselves.
The very act of talking to someone about a problem is extremely cathartic and can often produce the required motivation and decision. i.e. "Oh dear. If John/Jane's mentioned it, I better do something about it." Yes, it's a sensitive area but don't let that stop you from trying to help.
Three simple tools to show the uninitiated what else they could be choosing, to become informed and have a giggle while they do it are:
So onward, I say. Squadron scramble! Douglas Adams once grumbled, "You live and learn. Well, at any rate, you live." Sometimes all it takes is to lower our gaze and look at those local to us. And care enough to want to help them.