Would you like a guilt-free holiday which you actually enjoyed? Here are a few simple tips.

Tip 1 – Give up your guilt and judgements about 'bad food'.

Science tells us that our bodies react to food the same way whether we eat it, or just think about eating it. So you might as well enjoy actually eating it! And the impact of guilt and judgements about 'eating the wrong things' may well do your body more harm than the food itself. Go easy on yourself, relax, and enjoy your food.

If anger, rage, hate, fury, guilt, blame, shame are toxic....laughter, joy and happiness are healing. So allow your food to heal you this season.

Tip 2 – Ask your body what it requires.

Have you ever tried this? Consciously ask your body and see what shows up. Maybe you'll start to salivate when you think/see a particular food. Maybe your eye will hover over a particular menu item. Or maybe you'll just 'know'. Your body is a remarkable thing that operates your heart, pancreas, liver, kidneys etc with remarkable precision. (Do you think your university-educated higher brain could do that?). So it might just know a thing or two about what it requires. Just because your brain is programmed to eat 'Christmas food' doesn't mean you body needs it. And you'll feel much better if you listen to your body.

Tip 3 – Choose for YOU. Yes you can.

All festivals usually come with a standard cultural menu. Just because your parents served it that way, doesn't mean you have to too. Just because your parents may be staying with you, doesn't mean you have to choose their (or anyone else's) menu. There is no right or wrong, there are only choices. So why not choose food that you know will work for you?

Tip 4 – Be aware of where your food comes from and what your body does with it.

If you buy from a large/chain/bulk-style supermarket, the food you buy may already be 'dead'. It has probably been grown in nutrient deficient soil, sprayed with pesticides, heated, processed, stored, and shipped thousands of kilometers before it gets to you. What if you asked instead where you could buy locally grown, organic food? What if it were FREE from your OWN garden?

Tip 5 – Drink lots of water

Your body is 75 per cent water and every system in your body relies on it. Not enough and your body will literally 'cry out' in pain and start to shut down. Drink 1-2 litres a day, and no, this does NOT include alcohol, soft, caffeinated or milk drinks. If you prefer another taste to your water, squeeze in some fresh lemon juice or soak superfood Goji berries (ku-ki-ja) or Shizandra berries (o-mi-ja) in it for a few hours.

Tip 6 – Get some sun.

You need Vitamin D, including to PROTECT against skin cancer. The sun provides this and it's free! Make sure you get a sensible amount, especially through the winter. And it's a GREAT excuse for a holiday in Australia or Thailand!

Tip 7 – Be grateful.

Thank your food, thank your body. It got you through another year operating equipment more complicated than a NASA space station. Truly amazing.

Do you know how it works? No, but thank goodness it does. So thank it and ask what it requires to see you through another fabulous year.

 
 
‘I cannot believe out of 100,000 sperm, you were the quickest.’Steven Pearl

So something's not working for you anymore. Being aware of your preferences - physical and other - is the first step to taking action to make a change.
  • So you’re gaining weight. How heavy will you get before you do something about it?
  • Do you share the same preferences as your spouse or partner?
  • Are there things about you, you'd like to change?
  • Are you going to do anything about them?
  • Do you know how to do anything about them?
Sometimes a nudge is all it takes for someone to admit, ‘Yeah, I’ve been putting it off. I'd like to do something about my smoking, drinking, drugs, diet, foul mouth, pot belly…’

Being aware of how we'd like our life/body/relationships to be and knowing we can make a change if we choose it, lifts us out of the frozen pit of inaction dwelling on the wrongness of us (our body, our fortune, our relationships).

It also creates new possibilities and we can avoid getting hurt and be better equipped for the tough times. And you know those will come a-calling.

Questions to get you going
  • What's not working for me right now?
  • Am I uncomfortable/unhappy enough to make a change?
  • Do I know where I want to go? What is my target?
  • What can I change NOW with ease?
  • What else would I like to change?
  • Who/what/where do I need to talk to/read/go to make these changes?
  • What other missing information do I need? (Start reading, listening, looking.)
  • What will it take for me to take action to get the results I desire?
  • Where have I bought that I cannot steer my own destiny? It is possible if I keep choosing it.
  • I can really do this!
And don't forget to first ask yourself
  • What's right about me that I'm not getting?
How often do we struggle with ourselves because someone, somewhere has decided we don't match their judgements of what we should be? When considering change, be aware that unless it's the change YOU desire, you may simply end up frustrating yourself even more.